Awes and gnaws – this is exactly how I’d
describe my time spent in Sydney. I always reckon it is not the place you live
that matter, it is the people around you that do.
Some
people just fit tactically in your life when you badly need them like a missing
puzzle piece found. They are not your friends, not your relatives, not even
people you meet at work every day. They are strangers waiting to make that moment
of yours memorable. A few people I met in the lil’ old granny flat in Burwood
made it an unforgettable stay for me in Sydney for which I am eternally
grateful.
The
experience was not all that pleasurable in the beginning, I turned out to be
home sick which I thought I’d never be, I turned out to be not-so-social which
I believed otherwise and it turned out I am Hemophobic.
The Opera House - In Sepia
One
particular summer day, when I was getting used to my flat (which is a small
room with an attached bathroom), I heard someone knock my door. I thought it
must be Eddy, my landlord and opened it. To my surprise, there stood man in his
early 80s, wearing white pajamas. He looked cute to me and he sure was in great
shape from what I saw. What are you thinking? He is Chinese, of course. He
lifted both his hands and said something in a language I didn’t comprehend. He must
have realized although I looked Asian I am no Chinese, why? Not even Nepalese.
So he asked me “okhay, all okhay??” waving both his hands and smiling. I
interpreted it so well you know; he was asking me if I was all set in the new
house and if I was okay. Bingo! I replied to him in our newly found “OK-language”
and right then, I made friends with the most pleasant, warm-hearted person I
have met till date. I came to know he is the father-in-law of the landlord
Eddy.
Where
is my curry?
The
initial days in the flat were difficult, being all alone didn’t make me sad but
being away from home did. I received a package receipt from India. My parents
had sent over some cooking vessels, some Indian spice mixes and other cooking
items for my catering needs here at Sydney which were not allowed to be carried
during my travel. They knew very well the travails of a vegetarian in a foreign country.
I was thrilled as I took the package home which weighed 15 kilos, on my own and
it was worth it after all. I began to cook independently for the first time. The
granny flat had a common kitchen and I stored my vessels in a secured cabinet
so as to avoid any meat exposure. Being the amateur that I am, my cooking
experiments are worth a mention.
That’s
not Okra, that’s a lady’s finger!!!
In an
unkindly contemptuous manner, I shook my head and said “No, I want to see my
mom”. I, in fact was told later that I cried like crazy. Something simple as
this happened that day; I tried cutting the Okra a little too hard and ended up
cutting my middle finger (not completely, just a slit). The slit was deep
enough to expose the pink stuff and blood was oozing out with no control. I
passed out. When I was back to consciousness, Ana, my housemate came to help, I
was plain rude to her asking for her to bring my mom right then in front of me.
Teresa, another housemate, came closer to me and asked if they needed to call an
ambulance. That freaked me out and I cried even louder. “Ammmaaa, Amma … enge
irke amma...” (Mom, where are you) with
all might. With all compassion, Teresa shook me and said, “Listen to me dear,
your mom must be miles away, think of me as your mom, tell me what you want,
please don’t cry, Let me call the ambulance for you”. And she did call them. I
must be the only person to avail ambulance services for a mere cut in a middle
finger. Well, what can you expect of a Hemophobic, homesick me indeed?
After
the ambulance left, I was exhausted. I thanked Ana and Teresa for their help
and went back to the dining room, where I fainted earlier. There was a huge
bandage tied to my middle finger and my face was swollen-red due to profuse crying.
I was trying to relax; the sun was shining at its peak and I suddenly heard a
voice from behind.
“Santa
Maria Madre de dios” he spurted out, looking at my finger. Whether
it was the slight emphasis which he put on the first word, or whether it was
sheer generosity that impelled him, one cannot say; but Anto had the gentleman
element when he spoke; not to
forget the look of respectful tenderness which came along.
Good one Roh :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Hari :) Glad you liked it :) Keep visiting ...
Deletewow.. beautifully written .. :)
ReplyDeleteGood that you have immortalized them and their kindness in your post..
sometimes we experience such kindness,, something that sustains this world which is falling apart ...
Thanks a lot for dropping by... glad you liked it :)
Delete//sometimes we experience such kindness,, something that sustains this world which is falling apart// Well said ...
If you had commented in Tamil I'd have easily found you Anonymous.. you know why!! :P :D Thankiuuu !! :)
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